Throughout the celebration there was a video playing that was comprised of pictures from Grandpa's life...
Now, I must say that I did enjoy viewing the pictures of my own family (Dh and the kids), including the ones of Dh when he was kid. They helped me to see how far we have come over the years... how much we've changed and grown up. The photographs that I must admit to having enjoyed the most, though, were the ones of Grandpa when he was a child, himself.
I can't say that I know a lot about Dh's Grandpa. The things I do know Dh has told me or those things I've picked up through conversation. Such as the fact that he lived on a farm for most of his life, and, given the dates that were attached to the photographs in the video... he grew up during the Depression.
You know, though... While looking at them, I noticed one thing. Even during tough times... they were still smiling. My thought is that it was due to the fact that they knew the secret to happiness...
As I was growing up, I didn't have much extended family around me, and when I did, it seemed there was nothing but bickering that occurred between them and my parents. Needless to say, for the most part, we weren't a very tight knit family on either side. It's only been in the most recent of years that I've truly realized how important family is. It is a lesson that I don't think I would have ever really learned without Dh's help. I now know, though - from this weekend past - where he learned it.
Near the end of the party, there were "speeches" made. No one had anything but glowing remarks to say about Grandpa. How he has been a wonderful role model and how he never hesitated to make sacrifices for his family... He grew up in a different time. A time when the focus of life was more upon the intangible things that money can't buy. Back when the way of being was more... simple.
And here we - his grandchildren - are... after all the "progress" that has been made by our nation... our world... trying to get back to that simple way of being. Who would have ever known that it would be, at times, so difficult?
I am happy to say, though, we do have one piece of the puzzle in place... the importance of family. Because... without family and the love of others, the whole long trek really isn't worth a hill of beans.